...or how to be real woman. 

Most of the work we do or jobs we have – need a lot of masculine or male energy, so we need male qualities. But on the other hand these days female energies are gaining more and more ground at our working places. A man that only has male qualities or male energies is going to have hard time only being masculine so we men also need to develop the female qualities  without getting lost.

Therefore I think to be a total man is not only to be a macho or gentleman. I think we naturally have female parts in us; like an Amazon woman or a princess. And sometimes men behave like princesses, which is very nice that they live this part but then they are missing the macho or the gentleman. And the other way round, some people are only macho, which is also nice in a part, but they limit their possibilities. They limit their possibilities to express themselves and they limit the feeling of being complete and home with themselves. So for them it is interesting to discover or allow another part in themselves. 

I realized that its very important to get aware of the man and woman we are and find new ways to enjoy this being man and woman, without being afraid of it. In some of the courses we mix men and women. The courses are for both because some of the women are more macho than most of the men. We have courses where we say: Take the macho out, which on the one hand is saying; show your macho and on the other hand take your macho out so you can also live something else. So that you are not clinging on one role and being limited in this role.

For example a lot of women would love to devote themselves to the house, to the children or to the man, but they are afraid of loosing their freedom, loosing their independence and loosing the respect of the man or society. Being afraid that they only have to stay at home. So they don’t allow themselves their natural female part and are stuck being too independent or too macho. 

To bring a little clarity with a fun factor in it, I created this MachoTherapy.

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